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oldfemboy ,
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I remember getting gaslit about AIs lying. So glad it's getting attention.

The current job market is beyond fucked.

Most job responses I get is they're not hiring anymore due to restructuring. Aka they just go for pure profit increase while overworking the understaffed employees. No more remote interviews either. Tons of requests to do one sided video interviews. And the pays appear lower than they were during the main pandemic, even though...

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I am. One rejection. One interview with no followup. Waiting for a response from another. It's a dream for me to be a public servant but I'm not sure how close to reality it ever will get.

oldfemboy OP ,
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The unpaid overtime is in my contract.

oldfemboy ,
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They should nationalize it in every country.

oldfemboy ,
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Holding my breath when walking next to other people. I get sick less.

oldfemboy ,
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It's not fearing. It is becoming homeless. Both young millenials and older gen Z I've seen and myself had experienced going homeless. It's our reality.

oldfemboy ,
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If you have a limited mobility, they can be very hard to close if the tail is short, which defies the purpose of a bottle cap.

oldfemboy OP ,
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I've been homeless multiple times, thankfully never rough sleeping yet. Employers have always been an issue because the system is built around the idea of you living with the family or being able to go back to them if you fall on tough times: without that, any form of thriving is more frequently than not out of reach.

I had to move countries multiple times purely out of necessity due to the housing crisis engulfing possibly everywhere, but you can try to hop around, it worked out temporarily for me, but the alienation due to friendship loss and language barriers are soul crushing.

I am currently going back to a country where I speak the language of, even though it's near guaranteed I will be homeless rough sleeping there (I moved countries to avoid it, but I cannot take living where I ended up).

People like me I knew growing up ended up with severe mental issues. Some resort to sex work, some are on government money. Some aren't with us any more...

oldfemboy OP ,
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I was unable to finish my degree due to not being able to afford rent + food, on top of that not even having the time to learn due to shifts, many scheduled during my lecture hours in spite of getting hired for my student status for tax purposes.

oldfemboy OP ,
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I'm so happy for you to had been able to turn things around. 🥰

oldfemboy OP ,
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I had my surname changed. Changed my number recently too. Good luck with yours. :)

oldfemboy OP ,
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Thank you so much. 🥺 I'm sure you'll be an amazing parent. 🥰

oldfemboy OP ,
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Due to how unique my life is I prefer to keep information private not to get identified. My apologies.

oldfemboy ,
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Rhino-Linux for rolling release Ubuntu-based. I never tried it myself as I'm not into Ubuntu much. I reckon it has UI for installs, so I'd recommend it to any non-technical person.

ZorinOS was my go-to recommendation due to it looking the most polished out of all distros I've seen, but I cannot recommend non-rolling-release as I don't believe anyone should ever need to re-install the system regularly like this when it's clearly not needed.

EndeavoursOS is terminal centric and the most easy to use distro I've had. I'd recommend it to anyone who is ok with no UI.

OpenSUSE Tumbleweed was generally a weird experience. It has a UI, but it feels like a terminal with UI elements. I used to recommend it, but I don't feel like it's actually good tbh.

I stopped hopping thanks to EndeavoursOS. NixOS tempts with different folder structure, but I like things just working, so I think I'm gonna stay.

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I like handling bureaucracy so I can handle that. Currently trying to get a public office job. I'm bringing it up because I'm aware most people don't.

Many "undesirable" jobs are undesirable because they're below living wage and/or may be long-term unsustainable physically (or mentally) with the 40(+)h/week standard.

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